Tag: self-compassion

All The Things I Tell Myself

I am not where I imagined I would be at this point in my life. When this topic came up at dinner a while ago, my husband asked me to promise I would not host a self-pity party. I told him I would do no such thing because some lies just cannot be told. Even as…

By Lisa May 5, 2017 Off

#BeReal – LISA LISTWA | hastywords

I’m visiting over at Hasty Words today to talk about what I think it means to #BeReal. And about a good pair of jeans. Not too long ago, a friend told me I was brave. I think the word she said was brave… she admired my chutzpah in posting my whole and actual weight in…

By Lisa January 20, 2016 Off

Self-Love is Hard; Self-Reproach is Easier – A #1000Speak Post

Let me tell you something about self-love: Self-love is very difficult to practice when you’re feeling down on yourself.     It should come as no surprise that I’ve opted for the self-compassion route again this #1000Speak link-up – that’s been my focus all along. Of course, it’s been a couple of months since I’ve actually…

By Lisa October 22, 2015 Off

1000Speak – Nurturing the Self

No one wants to be called selfish. We want people to say that we are generous and other-centered. We want people to call us kind and compassionate. We want to actually be all of these things. We are taught that it is good to be selfless. But we misinterpret that. Look at the word – selfless.…

By Lisa April 20, 2015 Off

1000 Voices Speak for Compassion AGAIN in April

The members of 1000 Voices Speak for Compassion are gearing up for another campaign! This month, 1000 Voices Speak for Compassion is talking about nurturing. On April 20th, we will link up once again to flood the Internet with good and positive posts about nurturing. For my April post, I will talk about nurturing the…

By Lisa April 13, 2015 Off

An Acuteness Of The Senses

I do not make it a habit to use this space for rants and complaints. I am not suggesting that I never talk about things that bother me. Of course I do. But today I’m feeling a bit lousy and I just want to say so. I feel lousy.

By Lisa March 24, 2015 Off

FTSF – I Have No Proudest Moment

I have no proudest moment to share with you. I am terrible with superlatives. Favorite? Best? Proudest? Worst? I am always struck dumb when asked to name only one. After thinking about this for days, I find myself reaching the same conclusion once again. I can not name any one proudest moment.

By Lisa March 21, 2015 Off

#1000 Speak: Step Into Someone Else’s Skin

It was a conversation with my daughter that helped me finally decide. We were talking about a disagreement between her and a classmate. Both parties were upset; neither understood the other’s point of view. As we talked at dinner that night, my daughter began to understand not only what might have caused the other person to act as they did,…

By Lisa March 19, 2015 Off