TToT – How is May Not Over Yet???

May 25, 2014 Off By Lisa

Is it really still May? This has been like the never-ending month. I suppose it’s all just part of the never-ending winter followed by the never-ending second semester. Late Easter and early Memorial Day make for a long fourth quarter of the school year. And we are all so ready for school to be over.

But Zilla took a look at her Fancy Nancy calendar this morning and assured me that it is indeed the last week of May (finally) and summer vacation is not far behind. I really do hate to wish my life away like that, but I am ready to move on to the next phase. Big time.

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I’ll start off by being thankful that I can cross off another massive deadline. A big project is finished and it went much better than I expected so that’s a good thing. The deadlines that remain for the year are fairly standard. I just have to remember not to shut down before I finish everything!

I am thankful that the Hub understands I do not handle stress well and takes care of me anyway. I am particularly inept at handling the kind of stress that goes with this week’s big task, so I’ve been more of a bear than usual.

Have I mentioned his coffee?

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I am always thankful for Zilla’s humor. Especially when she’s funny and has no idea. We had a family gathering to attend on Saturday and while there, Zilla decided to play shy with an uncle she hasn’t seen in a few months. Back at home that evening, I explained that she doesn’t need to do the shy thing with people.

Me: Zilla, I think it would make Uncle J. really happy if the next time you see him you’d be sweet and talk to him instead of hiding behind me.

Z: I was playing Hide and Seek with him. That’s sweet.

Me: (not buying the hide-and-seek claim) OK, but I think Uncle J. thought you were hiding from him and maybe didn’t understand that you were playing.

Me: Well, I guess old people just think that way sometimes.

My Uncle is all of about 58 – I hardly think he counts himself as “old people” and he certainly doesn’t look or act like “old people.” Nevertheless, I called to tell him the story and he got a good laugh. My Mom cracked up when I told her, too.

That the three Rotten Cats did not scratch the hell out of Zilla when they all got one of their nine lives scared out them this week. It’s really a whole other story. In short, the three of them got a pretty good fright this week and the potential to have been scared in Zilla’s direction was there, but they simply mewed at each other and left her alone. Hooray.

This from Zilla at the breakfast table this morning:

Z: Mom, you’re like the best Mom ever. Will you remember that for me, please?

I am particularly thankful that the Hub did not put me out on the doorstep this week like the Flintstones’ cat. This was a horribly stressful week for me and I have been pretty miserable. Somehow he managed to tolerate me and put up with my stress levels. Hmm…I may have put this in here already. It’s OK. It deserves mention twice.

Reaching for this one…I’m very thankful that school ends (finally) in only three more weeks. Really, I’d like to have a tantrum that it is STILL three more weeks because this year has been interminable. But I’m going to try and flip it to a positive and say it’s ONLY three more weeks.

I’m thankful that Zilla and the Fab Hub managed to get through this week’s Kindergarten field trip relatively unscathed. If you’ve ever been on a Kindergarten field trip you know that they can be pretty crazy. Some run very smoothly and others, well, others just don’t. So they survived this one and we’re clear for another year.

I have to mention here how thrilled the Hub and I both are that Zilla is such a good and eager reader. This kid is deeply entrenched in the world of chapter books already and she’s devouring them one after another. Some days we read to her; others she reads on her own. But I know all too well that there are people out there – children and adults – who do not read well and do not enjoy reading. I could write ten pages about the reasons why that makes me sad, but for her I’ll just suffice to say that I’m happy Zilla reads and reads well.

I am thankful that the Fab Hub finally dealt with the wasps’ nest that he discovered inside our grill. The grill is now ready to use again and he emerged un-stung from the process. He may  have enjoyed burning the little buggers’ home just a bit too much, but I suppose that’s better than having them multiply out there and keep us from enjoying the deck.

And now I’ll be thankful that I’m finally finished and can post this list.

Three things of Worthwhile…hmm. I’ve been so cranky this week I’m not sure I can pull this one off without people snorting in disbelief. But here goes…

  • I laughed off a few things that could have made me scream.
  • I did not scream at people who were rude to me.
  • I handled a particular situation relatively calmly.

Now it’s your turn…share ’em or link ’em! And have a wonderful week!

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Ten Things of Thankful